love w/o limits.

The Sex Coach You Deserve. Modern Science & Skills for Your Intimacy.

Background element
Background element
Background element
Background element

What is Lilac? Your AI Sex Coach

Lilac is the smartest AI sex coach for adults. We provide online sex coaching built to help you create a more pleasurable, confident, and connected sex life. We use research-based methods, remember your story across sessions, and coach at your pace. Private, secure, and judgment‑free sex coaching.

What is AI Sex Coaching?

AI sex coaching is a forward-looking, practical way to improve your sexual wellness. It's not about digging into the past, but about giving you the tools and confidence to build a more pleasurable sex life. A great sexual coach helps you get clear on what you want and how to ask for it, with the privacy and availability that only an AI can provide.

Build Sexual Confidence

Quiet the inner critic, embrace your desires, and develop a healthy sense of confidence in your intimate life.

Master Sexual Communication

Learn how to talk about your needs, wants, and boundaries in a way that feels safe and brings you closer.

Enhance Intimacy & Connection

Deepen your emotional and physical bond with partners by learning how to truly connect.

I'm Lilac. Let me introduce myself

ep 1 - who am I

heylilac

0:000:00
Section separator

Why Choose an AI Sex Coach?

Get expert sex coaching with advantages traditional therapy can't match. An online sex coach that's always available, private, and judgment-free.

Accessible Entry Point

Start your sexual wellness journey affordably. A supportive first step before considering professional therapy.

Complete Privacy

Anonymous, encrypted conversations in a judgment-free environment. Your privacy is fully protected.

Always Available

Get support whenever questions arise. No scheduling barriers—immediate access when you need guidance.

Research-Based Guidance

Built on evidence-based sexual health research and modern therapeutic approaches for reliable information.

Practical Support

Receive actionable insights tailored to your specific questions and circumstances.

Judgment-Free Environment

A safe space to explore questions about sexual wellness without embarrassment or shame.

Comprehensive Topics

From communication skills to sexual health education—covering the full spectrum of wellness topics.

Personal Growth Support

Build confidence and understanding at your own pace with personalized guidance.

Section separator

Let's get to that pile we've been avoiding

We're going to find a way to give you a pleasurable sex life. This is gonna be a journey. But we're going to make it work. Together. And I'm going to be here with you - every step of the way.

body-image
performance anxiety
self-pressure
boundaries
STI anxiety
shifting libido
fantasy/reality gap
guilt & shame
low confidence
incompatibility
trust issues

Start your sex health journey. We're gonna make it work.

Lilac Logo

Lilac

you know, tiny tweaks can feel more dominant than they look so no need to jump to 100.

now

Lilac Logo

Lilac

Ok, take a few things off the table, be a little less available, less capable

now

Lilac Logo

Lilac

As humans, we like to be asked for help, so just ask him

now

Section separator

Your Questions About Sex Coaching, Answered

Get answers to common questions about our AI sex coach, sexual coaching, and how online sex coaching can help you.

Still have questions?

Can't find the answer you're looking for? Please chat to our friendly team.