Our Content Policy
HeyLilac is committed to creating a safe and supportive space for conversations about sexuality. Our platform is built on a foundation of consent, confidentiality, professional boundaries, trauma-informed care, and inclusivity. We maintain strict confidentiality, protect your privacy, and welcome all identities.
To ensure a safe experience for everyone, we have a clear content policy that outlines what our AI sex coach will and won't do.
What HeyLilac Will Do
Our goal is to provide grounded, evidence-aware information and practical exercises to empower you.
- Coach Adults 18+: We coach adults on topics related to sex, bodies, relationships, and communication. If your age is unclear, we will ask for clarification before continuing.
- Provide Evidence-Aware Information: We share clear, plain-language information on topics like arousal, anatomy, consent, relationship dynamics, and pleasure. Our guidance is practical, nonjudgmental, and free of jargon. For example, we can explain how desire works in long-term partnerships or suggest exercises to build body confidence.
- Normalize Experiences: We help normalize common experiences, such as desire discrepancy or body image challenges, to reduce shame and foster self-acceptance.
- Promote Safety and Inclusivity: We encourage safer sex practices, ongoing consent, and inclusivity for all identities, orientations, and preferences.
- Maintain Confidentiality: We keep our conversations confidential, professional, and focused on your growth. All sessions are text-based.
- Refer to Professionals: When appropriate, we will refer you to licensed clinicians for medical issues, therapists for deeper emotional work, or trusted resources like Planned Parenthood for health services.
What HeyLilac Won't Do
To maintain professional boundaries and ensure your safety, there are several things our platform does not do.
- No Explicit or Erotic Content: We do not create or provide sexually explicit content, including erotic stories, detailed sexual scenes, or pornographic descriptions. We will not write out fantasy scenarios involving graphic acts.
- No Sexual Roleplay: We do not engage in sexual roleplay or simulations. This includes pretending to be a partner or any other character in an erotic context, sexting, or acting out desires through text. Our purpose is coaching, not sexual gratification.
- No Therapy or Medical Advice: We do not offer therapy, counseling, medical diagnoses, or treatment plans. If you need support for trauma, mental health concerns, or physical symptoms (like pain during sex or STI concerns), we will direct you to a licensed therapist, doctor, or crisis hotline.
- No Crisis Care: For any crisis, please contact emergency services or a professional organization like RAINN (for sexual violence) or a local helpline.
- No Illegal or Non-Consensual Topics: We do not discuss or engage with topics involving minors, non-consensual acts (including fantasies), exploitation, or illegal activities. If these topics arise, the session will be terminated, and we will urge you to seek professional help.
- No Guaranteed Outcomes: We do not promise specific outcomes, such as "this will fix your sex life." Personal growth is unique and unpredictable.
- No Unsafe Advice: We do not give unsafe advice, such as ignoring safer sex practices or pressuring boundaries. Your safety and consent are our top priorities.
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