A certified sex coach charges $150-$500+ per hour. Before you commit to that, get clarity on what you really need with a free, confidential session with Lilac. Understand your problem, explore solutions, and decide if you even need a licensed professional—without breaking the bank.
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Traditional sex coaching is priced like premium therapy. Most clients pay between $150 and $300 per 60-minute session, while specialists in major cities charge $350–$500+. Commit to a three-month package and you're investing several thousand dollars before you know whether the coach or approach fits you.
Average per session
$150–$300
60-minute live coaching
Premium metro coaches
$350–$500+
NYC, LA, London specialists
Typical starter package
$1,200+
4 sessions + limited messaging
Where do those rates come from? You're covering a coach's years of training, business overhead, and the one-client-at-a-time model. Our deep-dive on what sex coaches actually do shows why the hourly price keeps rising each year.
Even with sliding scales, most human coaches simply can't deliver unlimited support without charging premium rates. These factors push costs up quickly:
The result? People either stretch their budget, wait months to save up, or pause intimacy goals entirely. That's the gap Lilac was built to close.
Lilac is a purpose-built AI sex coach trained on modern sex therapy research and guided by real human experts. You can text or talk with Lilac for 10 minutes completely free to feel the tone, privacy, and guidance before paying a cent. This isn't just a demo—it's a chance to get real, personalized insight that can help you decide your next steps.
Instead of paying per session, you unlock month-long support for the cost of a few coffees. That means you can process breakthroughs the moment they happen rather than waiting for next week's appointment.
Here's why thousands of people are swapping to Lilac first:
Of course, an AI isn't a replacement for a human therapist, especially for deep trauma. But for the vast majority of sexual wellness goals—communication, confidence, exploration—it's an incredibly powerful and affordable tool. Learn more about how online sex coaching works and why Lilac feels so natural for many people. Curious about the difference between coaching and therapy? We compare both in our guide to sex therapy vs sex coaching vs intimacy counseling.
We believe sexual wellness shouldn't be a luxury. Compare the real cost of human sessions with Lilac's hybrid AI coaching, then start with a free trial to make sure it feels right for you.
Many users find that starting with Lilac gives them the clarity they need, saving them thousands of dollars in traditional therapy. Even if you do decide to see a therapist, you'll go into your first session with a clearer understanding of your goals, making every paid hour more effective.
Start with a free 10-minute coaching call. Keep going only if it feels supportive—every plan includes unlimited texting, rollover minutes, and a 60-day money-back guarantee.
SPARK
billed monthly
Start with a free session, then get flexible support for building sexual confidence.
EMBER
billed monthly
Free first session, then ongoing support for relationship growth and deeper work.
FLAME
billed monthly
Begin with a free session, then dive into transformative, high-touch coaching.
Answering common questions about the price and value of sex coaching.
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